I suppose nothing can really be blamed, not the people, not the world nor time.
Anyway a few weeks back i read a friend's tumblr post talking about his issues and views. One point he made was that how he didn't spent enough time with his brothers bcos of their work and my friend's schooling. He mentioned how poly life will soon pass by sooner or later, and how NS and work will push him further from his brothers. So he said that he only has till the end of poly, 2 years, to really hang out with his brothers, bcos soon they'll get married and my friend will not have enough time once he's in NS.
So the point is, after reading this, i became more aware of my relationship with my sister. I actually told her about my friend's post. After that, we hang out more, or maybe it was bcos of CNY. But even so, we could always 'click' with each other even though the 4 years age gap. Since she's now jobless and will soon start work this monday, we've been hanging out with each other for the past week, and these 3 days had been all about us.
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| Seafood Spaghetti with Wagyu Beef & Onion soup |
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| Sakae Deluxe Bento |
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| audio-technica ATH-FC700 |
.We made dinner tgt and watched a movie in my com tgt. Not something we'd do normally.
Even ate lunch ysd at sakae sushi.. 1st time 'really' blanja my sis makan lol.
After makan go sim lim buy my awesome headset, oh-i-love-it-so-much.
But really, no matter how much we don't talk, we still live in the same house.. We are still brother's and sister's. Compared to last time, when she was overseas, i couldn't be bothered when my parents always webcam with her den always ask me to talk to her, cos usually nth 2 talk abt. lol. The best was when i went visit her in Brisbane.. that was still the best, *whew* that i went at least once, before the flood. :D
Memories are at their best only when we are making them instead.But to comment on my friend's post.. I would say that no matter what, u guys are still brothers, just like best friends, if u guys are 'in-sync' with each other, dun need talk but will still be connected. My sis has just begun work, and soon might be into relationships and maybe even marriage.. But don't forget, ur life is also ever-changing. Compromise is key. NS might make u lose time to hang out, but NS makes u guys closer, since they all been through it.. right? I guess as time goes by, memories will no matter what, be formed.
The memories in itself isn't that important. But by cherishing them will they be.
